#135546 - She poured out her story, leaving nothing out, and then waited to hear what the doctor had to say about all of this. What happens if I get to afraid and want him to stop, Julie asked? We'll give you a safe word, a word that you can use at anytime to stop the whole program, so if for example your safe word was needle, all you would have to do is say that word and your surrogate would stop immediately, it's that easy! When would it happen, questioned Julie? We can't tell you when or where, but I can tell you that it will be sometime in the next two weeks, replied the doctor. There were the usual insurance forms that she quickly disposed of, but the personal history questionnaire, that was another matter.